Dear friends,
Om shanti. Now is not the time to think about how others should change. Even Dadi doesn't think about the transformation of others. Ask yourself, “what do I want to transform about myself?” What new thoughts have you had in relation to your own transformation? Focus on the changes you want to bring about in the self, and then find a simple and easy method to bring about these changes. Apply the changes in your life. Then seeing and sensing your change, others will automatically get the vibration of that. They will then change. The company of such souls who are able to transform themselves, colours others. It's a waste of time to think about reforming others. Just have good wishes and pure feelings inside for them.
With love,
BK Janki
Bhavesh Maheshwari: The mind can be like a wiled horse and so it is necessary to train the mind with love and understanding. Raj Yoga meditaion is a very good method for this. It teaches how to make our mind our freind and to have elevated thoughts and pure feelings towards the self and others. It teaches us how to connect to the Supreme Source of spiritual power so that we have the power to transform. Over time we have become influenced by negativity and so our thoughts and feelings will be such. Raj Yoga purifies the mind and allows us to think and feel more positively towards the self and others.
Whenever i goes to mandir or do spiritual practices, negative thoughts disturb me,
pls advice me, how to overcome this.
Yes, it is a waste of energy to change others, instead indeed fill your thoughts of good feelings for them and then let go. I have found this to be a very useful practice. My viewings of BK Shivani has borne this deep within me. This is so easy once you see the benefit you get from this. Change yourself instead and the world changes around you!!! (Saratoga, California)
We should focus at out demerrits and try to getrid of it.we can change ourselves.not others.
It is so hard to transform while you are still in the old world, they look at as us like an intruder sing a different song. only can sit in the silence to absorb the peace and let go. Transformation is hard.
some times I feel irritated to see how other do speak,behave,act & I could not resist me to correct them & preach them & some times that turn me to think lot about the person & situation again & again if person said ok I feel relaxed if no I I feel exhausted.
Thank you Dadi
with Love