Question & Answer with Dadi Janki
There is a lot of anger and resentment between teachers and young people, which is unproductive – it doesn’t help things. How can I deal with this anger better?
I can learn to stay peaceful inside and share that feeling with young people, so that they can free themselves from their own anger. If someone throws something at me, like an insult or an angry comment, I can just let it drop and leave it lying there. By not picking up another person’s anger, I protect myself and at the same time give them the chance to take it back.
To be angry is to be out of control and so someone who is angry deserves our love and compassion more than ever. By staying in my own peace and patience and keeping my self-respect, I help others to do the same. By seeing people’s good qualities, I empower both myself and them. This is true generosity.
When I create sweetness inside, I can share it with others. For this I need to spend time in silence and really get to know and love my true, spiritual self and connect with the Divine. At the Brahma Kumaris, we use the words, ‘Om shanti’, which mean ‘I am a peaceful soul’, to remind us of who we really are - no matter what is happening around us. To be peaceful is to be powerful. It is also our natural way of being.
I have completed my 7 days course at my near by meditation centre & finally this special gift given by shiv baba after doing the rajyog at my home its feel me great & like to thank all the members of Om shanti gyan mandir.
Deep learn for this :)
Om Shanti
God to have positive thoughts and guidance from this site
Hi Tanu, Thanks for your comment. Please visit a center near you for more information. Attending the free courses offered there s the best way to learn more about how to change the self. Best wishes for success!
Sometimes i watch ur programmes on tv. I get many answers about my questions. when ever i am unhappy i watch ur program , be listening ur words i feel calm and happy. i want to live my life with postive attitude and want others to do same and to give happiness to all.so plz tell me how to change my self .
Thank You..
It is a nice article...
Om shanti Nice article really i felt this is right. We should give him love becoz anger can be won only only by love
Avoid or keep yourself away from situations that provoke anger and be calm and try to leave the person or work spot. "HELP EVER, HURT NEVER". Self controlled of the tongue is practised , many of the ills of the world would be avoided or healed. The boneless tongue so small can crush and kill or save the world.Thus cultivate the habit of LOVE in the gardenf of your heart by removing the weeds of jealousy,hatred, revenge, anger, pride and selfishness.We can not lead peaceful life unless we think peacefully.
I listen ur programe on tv show in morming.but I live in Pakistan. it is really wonderful and is help too. I too in this path. I had veryNice teacher,but he is in Heaven with Lord.
Anger comes from frustration and wounded past "just like when": when my father beat me because I was a bad daughter, when he needed to get his anger out at me from his own guilt. When my husband lies to me about his responsibility to his parents and family, leaving me and the children to suffer. When my mother-in-law polished my husband to hate me. When i was not respected for who I am in my marriage and feel like an outsider. The story does not change. I have taken a turn to go inside and do for myself all that I want from others. There is something out there much bigger than me, I am puppet.
Dear Readers, Many comments have been submitted to this article requesting help on dealing with anger, especially when one has been hurt or is being provoked. Individual advice cannot be given in response to such queries which, due to their personal nature, are not posted. Please visit a center near you (look in the menu "Where We Are" under "Locations Near You" to find one) to see if they are offering our course on Anger Management. Also, consider investing in the book by Mike George, "Don't Get Mad, Get Wise" available from one of our bookstores (also under the "Where We Are" menu on this website). Thanks for understanding.
I use to see awakening with brahmakumaris..
always feel nice & light to see that show.
but how to meditate? tell me...plz
Dear Umesh,
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i watch your show everyday ...and like that so much, which makes me motivate to approach the things and to improve our life with such a grt thughts.
thanks a lot.
can i get article by mails everyday.
rgrds,
umesh sharma
Sneha follow these points: Deep Breathing. Avoid or keep yourself away from situations that provoke anger. Chant any mantra/ try counting which ever comes in immediate rememberance. Tighten the twist and keep saying to yourself, no not me, I shall not let myself flow. Om Shanti