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I get very nervous around people and while talking I forget what to day and then mumble

Sister Shivani listens to the issues that people have and then responds in her classes and lectures. Generally, many people have the same issues and this is the most comprehensive way for her to offer spiritual help to everyone.

My brother attempted suicide and died.i am not able to overcome from that depression.i would like to know why God gave me this punishment.

I AM PASSING MORE TENSION BECAUSE SERVICE PROBLEM AND ????????

I have some personal questions

A big part of being careful about your condition is to pay attention to your thoughts. You may be stuck right now on negative thoughts about what could happen. You may need help in changing your thinking. Brahma Kumaris centres offer courses in meditation and positive thinking. Both of these courses can help you step away from your negative thinking, learn new ways of thinking and look at the factors that can help you stay positive. You will also learn about the journey of the soul and your eternal relationship with the Supreme Soul. These are important things to know when we are trying to stay positive.

Injustice is difficult to watch, especially when it is directed towards those we love. ShivBaba, the perfect being, is completely altruistic. This means He would never have a thought of harming anyone. He only helps people connect to their own goodness and make good decisions. However, we all receive the return of our actions. Since your parents have done good service for the family, they will receive a good return for that when they are reborn. Regardless of what the court decides to do about the case you described, the laws of karma are absolutely fair and just. Everyone will eventually get exactly what they deserve. While it may be painful to watch what is happening, it is best to not think about it unnecessarily. Thinking can cause you to suffer more. Instead, think about the kind of future you would like to create for yourself and your family. Have thoughts of kindness, honesty and loyalty towards your family to help the family stay strong during this difficult time.

I had an ectopic pregnancy lost my one fallopian tube...there is also risk in another pregnancy...chances are 15percent of risk ...doct said me just b positive...but I m unable to recover it and ...risk factor always revolve in my mind...plz help me....becoz I have to b very positive it's is very necessary to me...help me...

Om Shanthi,My name is Kranti.
My uncles have betrayed me ,my mother and my brother by taking away the Ancestral property.They have created false documents and created a will on their names without our knowledge.And they spread rumours about by mother and my dead father.When i come to hear that they speak ill about by parents i feel really angry but i control my anger.My Father was eldest son of my Grand parents and my mother is eldest daughter in law in the family.They have done great service in the joint family.My grand parents has 6 sons and 6 daughters ,of which my father being the eldest.Now the case is running in the court of law.I feel sad that my mother has done enormous service to the family and she got betrayed by the people that she trusted the most.My father died due to illness 8 years back.My brother live abroad.
Please suggest me what to do in this scenario.Some times i feel Y does people like that live in this world.Not only the property they also take the income from other property as well.We do not get a single paisa.I trust Shiv Baba.I am sure he will punish people like them through Karma.

We must first look after our own happiness before we can help others. A big mistake that many of us make is in thinking that another person can make us happy. It’s a painful lesson, but it leads to freedom. Freedom means to not be dependent on another person but to make decisions based on our own values and our own sense of what is right. In freedom, we make good decisions, decisions that benefit everyone. In freedom we can have good wishes for everyone, including ourselves. There is no value in hanging on to feelings of guilt. Once we realize our mistakes, have pure intentions to do better and start making independent decisions, our self esteem and self confidence return.

True love requires courage – the courage to make decisions based on love and not expect love in return. We realize that people we thought would help us through life have gone in a different direction. But we still love because we know that to love is the best for ourselves and for our families. Together with love, we need to be detached. Detachment doesn’t mean to be uninvolved or uncaring. We detach from our own desires and emotions and any pressures we may feel from other people, so that we can make good decisions. There is an expression, “The Lord is pleased with an honest heart.” Honesty means to be both loving and detached. When I am honest with myself and loving in my relations with others, I can take help and inspiration from God.

Sister, i m married fr past 14 yrs. two yrs back i came to know of my husband's extra marital affairs,, somehow i sailed thru but now i know he is physically involved with many and even with prostitutes. We r living in the same house but not talking to each other. I am sure he will continue on this pattern as he is completely detached. We have two kids nd pls show me the path ahead. I love him but don't want to get hurt repeatedly. Also there is no emotional attachment frm his side.

We both love each other n want to live together. I have a 9 year daughter. When our date of birth was matched they say strictly not to live together n seperste. What should i do its very difficult.

You ask very good questions which will lead you to a deep understanding of your self, God and your life. The laws of karma work identically for everyone. The most important thing to understand is that karmic “accounts” are cumulative. It is important for us to be very vigilant about our own karma because any loss or harm that we cause, small or big, will eventually come back to us. Conversely, every pure act of benevolence will come back. What we have done in the past is not as critical as what we do right now. If you feel that it is not right to consume eggs or onions or alcohol, then find out why. You can get answers to your questions at your Brahma Kumaris centre. There is no need to regret past actions once we choose to make better choices in the future. We change our destiny by doing this. Discover your own divine spiritual nature and develop it as fully as you can. This is what makes life satisfying.

I want sister Shivanis contact no to discuss my personal problem thank you