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The first question is: What kind of life do you want? What would give your life meaning? What do you feel is the purpose or destiny of your life? Once you answer these questions, your clarity and focus will lead you towards the path. All Brahma Kumaris centres offer an introductory course that helps people understand the subtle, spiritual aspects of life.

While it isn’t clear what is causing your father’s difficulties, the family can support him in becoming more stable. The family can help by not reacting negatively to him but rather staying calm, stable, detached and loving. When he is positive and relaxed, point out that this is his real self. Create a positive and peaceful environment in the home. Encourage him to look for solutions in restoring his positive personality.

My father is caught by negativity very badly. He blame everything. My other close family members is doubting that somebody has fed him something with the help of Taantrik Vidya. I do believe on this but my father is reacting somtime very abnormaly. Please suggest how to control him as because of this my wife is also got depressed and my loosing her temper.

Good questions. First of all, we should only follow things that we understand and feel will have a beneficial affect on our lives. Regarding onion and garlic, the point of refraining from them is to clear the head of substances that can interfere with our ability to come into the awareness of God. God is extremely subtle. The mind must be clear, clean and peaceful to pick up God’s subtle energy. Diet is one of many approaches to having loving relationship with the Supreme Soul. Ultimately, we each must decide how important that relationship is and how we can best maintain the relationship. And by the way, although garlic has some health benefits, it is toxic to the body. Information about this is widely available.