Om shanti. It is a mistake to become upset by seeing someone close to us under the influence of their own nature. Let there be not be words of weakness or any lack of hope when you see others under the influence of their nature.
Let your own feelings - for the self or for others - be detached and loving. By seeing each one’s virtues throughout the day, the atmosphere becomes full of love. In order to make your character elevated, go deep into the experience of spiritual love. Go into the depth of this and do everything peacefully. You will then not want anything.